Tuesday, April 19, 2016

Ten Years On

After ten years my perspective regarding living with a movement disorder such as MSA has become less subjective and knee-jerk, but rather objectively clear and concrete.  Does that make sense?  There have been so many stages, including plateaus filled with purpose, valleys of despair, and wide plains of empty longing for the way I once was (oh, brother is that flowery or what?).  You are probably among the dozens of people that have so closely followed my journey, so you can likely understand the meaning of my words, though maybe somewhat vague if not rambling.

Today, I see clearly that my life is a gift and that the physical and mental struggles I bring with me through this scramble through my time on earth are just part of the whole picture. The joy of life comes through if it persists through all the loses, changes and realizations that come with learning to accept the disappointments along with life's surprising graces. What a blessed person I am, and each of us can be with this perspective.

I had great talk during a breakfast out with someone in my extended family yesterday and I sensed that they had gained a lot of insight into what I am going through, and their interest had grown.  By this I mean they were wanting to be able to clarify those misunderstood aspects of Multiple System Atrophy.  They expressed how perplexing it is when others do not understanding the difference between the more commonly understood Parkinson's Disease and the complexities and seriousness of MSA (obviously, Parkinson's is not less serious, just different). It was, in this person's mind, as though "they just think of it simply as the common form of Parkinson's Disease."  "What is that again?  The name of the disorder?" they clarified.  I stated "Multiple System Atrophy" as they wrote it down.  I felt so gratified that there had developed such acceptance and a solid supportive interest.  There was a passion that accompanied the request for the right words.

I went home and called Vera James, our MSA patient coordinator who works with us and answers the hotline representing the MSA Coalition.  She will be sending me some great leaflets that give a thorough but brief explanation of the symptoms and things to watch for that define the struggles of this diagnosis.  Write me a comment and/or an email and I will send one to you.  You can always check this link to learn more about MSA and our Coalition. -- Dan


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